COMMON RELATIONSHIP AND SEX LIFE MISTAKES:Finally here you are, in a relationship with that guy/lady whom you have feelings for and have been crushing on. Everything has started off so well, the way you’ve always wanted, you guys are both having fun and enjoying every moment you spend with each other, sending romantic texts to each other, flowers, gift and spending romantic time together and hoping it will last forever. It can, i have seen some of them do but most times people make these common relationship and sex life mistakes that ruins everything. That one person you used to love and cherish the most now disgust you, you can’t even stand his/her sight anymore.
Well, let’s take a look at these common relationship and sex life mistakes that can ruin this perfect relationship you’ve got and you’d need to avoid them.
Being emotionally weak can be very bad for you in your relationship. You are just one week in and you are head over heels in love with him and you are showing this feeling every second that passes. You are wrong. This could be very bad for you if your partner doesn’t feel same way and he/she could easily take advantage of it. Trust me, it will really hurt. This occurs mostly in women. You get into bed with a guy, had sex, after that you are already emotionally attached to him. It might be bad for you if he is just interested in sex but you are wanting more.
Talking Too Much During Sex
Well, during the fore play, you both can talk dirty to each other but do not overdo it. This is one of the common relationship and sex life mistakes we make. Talking too much during sex can get you distracted and can ruin the fun you both are having. Also, thinking of any other thing while having sex will distract you and make the sex boring. A frequent act of this can ruin your sex life.
The Power Of ‘I Love You’
I love you has a strong emotional power behind it and it will be very wrong if you and your partner don’t say it to yourself from time to time. When having sex with your love partner, it is very important to say i love you. It spices up your relationship and sex life a lot
This is another common relationship and sex life mistakes lots of people make. It is very wrong to access your partners phone especially when you want to stalk him/her. You might find something that will get you uncomfortable and you will get hurt. If you are not comfortable with your partners behavior, why not talk to them about it and ask questions rather than stalking. If you ask me, i’ll say everyone has their privacy and everyone’s privacy should be respected.
Cybersex addiction is a common relationship and sex life mistake. If you have a partner, it’s best to focus on them and avoid cybersex. Watching of porn and masturbating with it is very wrong when you have a relationship/sex partner. Your partner might not find it very pleasing and in that case, you need to stop it, to avoid ruining your relationship/sex life.
One-sided lead is a mistake most people especially ladies make. He mustn’t take the lead every time you both want to have sex, this will make it boring. Relationship and sex is supposed to be a two way thing. Sometimes you can also take the lead role and make the romance really interesting. This way you sex life becomes really spiced up.
This is a mistake more common with the ladies. Try to be independent and make your money yourself. Most guys don’t like girls who are too demanding and this will ruin your relationship trust me. Try to work hard on your own and you will see how he automatically supports you and encourages you and become really attached to you. Even with the fact that you make your own money, he’ll still buy you gifts, take you out and still bucks you up willingly.
Not Being Each Others Best Friend
If you both are dating and you are not best friends, what have you gained? How will you be dating a guy and have another guy as a best friend or dating a girl and have another girl as a best friend? It is totally wrong. If you both love each other, you are supposed to be each others best friend. Having another opposite gender as your best friend might ruin your relationship.
Comparing Your Partner To Your Ex
This is another common relationship and sex life mistakes people make. It is totally wrong to compare your partner with your ex. Your ex is in your past and i’m not sure you want your past to ruin your present. Your ex is your ex because things didn’t go well for the both of you, now you are with your new partner, i’d say try to make things work between the both of you rather than comparing him/her with your ex.
Lack Of Communication
This is the ultimate. No relationship can survive without communication. If you are not happy with something your partner is doing, tell him, you both should talk about it. Don’t ever assume that he/she knows it all and should change automatically. This is a common relationship and sex life mistake many people make. If you miss you partner, call and talk to him/her. Don’t always wait for the other to do the calling or the talking. Communication is very important and shouldn’t be a one sided thing.