IS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT REAL OR NOT? Love at first sight means falling in love with someone the first time you set your eyes on them. Does that really work? You see someone for the first time probably because of he or she is good looking and attractive or because of his or her smile, you get attracted to the person and fall in love with the person. Is that how love really works?
Many people have different opinions on this topic. Some people believe in it why some people don’t. Here are my points:
I believe love is something that comes naturally and it undergoes processes. Even when you are in a relationship, the love that is shared between the couple increases as they last longer and happier in the relationship.
It is possible to see someone and like his looks, maybe he has a nice hair cut, she has a nice hair do, you love his outfit or her outfit, his or her smile is so cute and so on. This could get you attracted to the person but that doesn’t mean you are in love with the person.
You might see an opposite sex and get attracted to him or her and also feel like being in a relationship with the person, that also isn’t love. Don’t forget, not all relationship is based on love, it could be based on sexual feelings because one person found the other sexually attractive on first sight. Not all relationships start with love also, you could see someone for the first time, like the person and want to be in a relationship with the person. It could work, once you both are cool with yourselves, understand each other, love could gradually come in.
You can’t say you are in love with someone the first time you saw the person. I believe love must be prompted by something. You could like the person because of something which is obviously artificial. But you can’t just be in love with someone without knowing the inner part of the person. You don’t know the person’s character, you don’t know if you both will be stand each others’ excesses and all that. These are some factors that prompt love.Most times love at first sight isn’t mutual. There is a possibility that once you see the person and like him or her and approach the person, he or she might not like you on return especially when you make it known to them there it’s a love at first sight. Most people don’t believe in it because they think it’s a cunning way of wanting to have you and have sex with you because you look attractive.
And most at times, relationships based on love at first sight don’t last long. For instance, if a guy sees a girl, she is looking so beautiful and attractive, he likes her, walks up to her, talks to her and somehow they end up being in a relationship, once it is not love, he’ll certainly see another beautiful and sexy looking girl some other day and walk up to her too and will certainly get tired of the previous girl and break up with her.
Love at first sight is common with men than women because men are more sexually driven. They see an attractive woman and want to get into a relationship with her probably because he likes her ass or boobs. That isn’t love. I’ll call it crush or infatuation and it doesn’t last for a long time because he will definitely see another sexy looking lady someday and would prefer her to the previous lady.